Ok this week is a little bad because of my “friend” I only lost 1 lb but that makes a total of 11 lbs. Only 9 more lbs until I hit the 20 mark. I have Scotty on weight watchers too. My honey is so overweight, but I love him and I trust him to stay on this plan. He can do it. And he’s shown interest into going to the gym once he loses a few. He was playing basketball with his nephew and he only could play one game. He came in the house panting with his heart pounding saying that he felt like he was having a heart attack. I think that scared him enough to become serious. He will weigh in on Monday and hopefully it is a few pounds to give him motivation.
100 Questions January 12, 2006
1. ONE OF YOUR SCARS, HOW DID YOU GET IT?
on my right shoulder I got it from an operation that was to remove excess scar tissue
2. WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM?
not much just a few pictures
3. HOW MANY PERCINGS DO YOU HAVE?
7 ears and belly I used to have a ton
4. WHAT MUSIC DO YOU LIKE TO LISTEN TO?
5. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TIME YOU WERE BORN?
6. WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW?
to get that job with Arinc!
7. WHO DO YOU MISS?
My sister and nephew I haven’t seen her since christmas
8. WHAT IS YOUR MOST PRIZED POSSESSION?
my photos and memorys
9. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SMELL?
10. DO YOU GET CLAUSTROPHOBIC?
11. DO YOU GET SCARED OF THE DARK?
12. THE LAST PERSON TO MAKE YOU CRY?
noone has in a while
13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE COLOGNE / PERFUME?
curious by brittany spears and shania by shania
14. WHAT KIND OF HAIR DO YOU LIKE ON THE OPPOSITE SEX?
whatever suits them
15. WHERE CAN YOU SEE YOURSELF PROPOSING AT?
it was in my car on the way to the UVA UMD game
16. COFFEE OR ENERGY DRINKS?
17. WHAT”S YOUR FAVORITE PIZZA TOPPING?
extra cheese and mushroom.
18. IF YOU CAN EAT ANYTHING RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
cereal or icecream i like carbs
19. WHO IS THE LAST PERSON YOU MADE MAD?
probably my friend adrienne but I don’t care most of my friends are very petty and she really had no right to be mad since I was calling her out on her own game
20. DO YOU SPEAK A DIFFERENT LANGUAGE?
21. WHAT WAS THE FIRST GIFT SOMEONE EVER GAVE YOU (OF THE OPPOSITE SEX)?
a ring from ed
22. DO YOU LIKE ANYBODY?
I like lots of people
23. ARE YOU DOUBLE JOINTED?
24. FAVORITE CLOTHING BRAND?
express, h&m, gap, old navy
25. WHAT`S YOUR DREAM CAR?
27. WHAT IS ONE OF YOUR DREAMS?
to never worry about money again
29. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO TELL SOMEONE HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU?
just TELL them!
30. SAY A NUMBER FROM ONE TO A HUNDRED:
31. BLONDES OR BRUNETTES?
a little bit of both
32. WHAT IS THE ONE NUMBER YOU CALL OFTEN?
Scott’s cell or Carmelina’s cell
33. WHAT ANNOYS YOU MOST?
when my plans are interrupted or changed i am a very schedule oriented person because I work so much and do so many extra things I have to squeeze the most out of every second
34. HAVE YOU BEEN OUT OF THE US?
Yes. Europe, Amsterdam, Iceland, France, Belgium
35. YOUR WEAKNESSES?
36. WHERE DO YOU WANT TO LIVE?
in a house
37. FIRST JOB?
38. EVER PRANK CALL?
yes and my friends and I were recording it way before crank yankers
39. WHAT WERE YOU DOING BEFORE YOU FILLED OUT THIS SURVEY?
working… so much for that.
40. IF YOU COULD GET PLASTIC SURGERY WHAT WOULD IT BE?
I want fake boobs and new teeth
41. WHY DID YOU FILL OUT THIS SURVEY?
42. WHAT DO YOU GET COMPLIMENTED ABOUT MOST?
my hair my ass
43. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF ALCOHOL BECAME ILLEGAL?
Protest and begin making my own
44. WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY?
45. HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU WANT?
46. POOT OR BURb?
47. DO YOU WISH ON STARS?
48. WHICH FINGER[S] IS YOUR FAVORITE?
my middle finger because i use it so much
49. WHEN DID YOU LAST CRY?
not sure probably during the show
50. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
51. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
52. ANY BAD HABITS?
too many to name
53. WHAT IS YOUR MOST EMBARRASSING CD ON YOUR SHELF?
spice girls and its not mine its my husbands
54. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
no not really i am a pain in the ass
55. HAVE YOU EVER TOLD A SECRET YOU SWORE NOT TO TELL?
56. DO LOOKS MATTER?
to a point
57. HOW DO YOU RELEASE ANGER?
pick fights and curse
58. WHERE IS YOUR SECOND HOME?
59. DO YOU TRUST OTHERS EASILY?
not any more
60. WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE TOY AS A CHILD?
61. WHAT ARE THE FIRST THREE NUMBERS IN YOUR CELL PHONE?
mine are in ABC order
63. DO YOU USE SARCASM?
64. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN A MOSH PIT?
65. WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A GUY/GIRL?
being an overall nice person
66. WHAT ARE YOUR NICKNAMES?
missy, misslissa, yolissa… scott calls me pookie
67. DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND?
I have a husband… I probally shouldn’t have a boyfriend.—Me too!
68. DO YOU UN-TIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
69. WHO IS YOUR CRUSH?
no one sorry
70. WHAT`S YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAvor?
mint chocolate chip. —hey me too!
71. WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU WENT ON A DATE?
scott and I went to the movies on Friday
72. WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE COLORS?
pink black green
73. HOW MANY WISDOM TEETH DO YOU HAVE?
all of them but they neeed to be removed
74. WHO/WHAT DO YOU MISS MOST RIGHT NOW?
76. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
78. LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?
someone at work
79. THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE IN THE OPPOSITE SEX?
smile and build I like taller and bigger guys
80. FAVORITE THOUGHT PROVOKING SONG
depends on what you are thinking about try some pink floyd on for size
81. FAVORITE THING TO HATE:
ex boyfriends and their wives
82. FAVORITE DRINK?
coffee water soda
83. FAVORITE ZODIAC SIGN:
84. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SPORT?
football and hockey
85. HAIR COLOR?
black, red, blonde, white, brown
86. EYE COLOR?
87. DO YOU WEAR GLASSES?
one sister Nikki
89. FAVORITE MONTH?
90. YOU LIKE SUSHI?
91. LAST THING YOU WATCHED?
I didn’t watch tv last night I’m a looser
92. FAVORITE DAY OF THE YEAR?
when UVA and UMD play
93. ARE YOU TOO SHY TO ASK SOMEONE OUT?
94. SUMMER OR WINTER?
95. KISSES OR HUGS?
96. RELATIONSHIPS OR ONE NIGHT STANDS?
97. WHO IS THE MOST LIKELY TO ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS?
98. WHO IS THE LEAST LIKELY TO ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS?
99. WHAT BOOKS ARE YOU READING?
only stuff on statistics for school
100. IS ANYONE IN LOVE WITH YOU?
The Tony and Christine Story—*This could be a movie* January 11, 2006
I don’t know if anyone remembers, but about 5 years ago before I met my husband I was dating a man named Tony. Well, Tony worked with me for about a year and we were always friends. We took breaks together and chatted a lot. That summer, of 2001, he told me that he and his wife were separating. At that time I was still with my high school sweetheart and had no intention on dating Tony. Well, the Eddie story is another chapter, but the long and short of it is Eddie could never hold a job and always bummed money off of me. I paid for his college and everything! In October Ed lost yet another job and I gave him a 2 week ultimatum that if he didn’t get a job in 2 weeks it was over. 2 weeks came, he didn’t think I was serious, and I dumped him. Then Tony waltzes into the picture.
It’s October now and according to Tony he’s been separated for about 5 months. He didn’t even wear his wedding ring anymore. Tony asks me out and I comply. I totally adored him, we were friends and now I had the chance to be with him. It started of very well, but as it progressed it turned into shit. For example, Tony and I would meet up a lot on Sunday’s because I worked days and he worked nights and my Saturdays were pretty booked. He stood me up 16 times during our relationship, but always with good reasons. Kids are very sick, hit a deer, dad is sick, the list goes on and on. I always tried to be understanding and I was but he is the person who is responsible for making me an evil bitter person. Tony would always turn things around and make me the problem. “Why don’t you trust me. If you can’t trust me then that says something about yourself.” Things of that nature.
Anyhoo… Jump to November 2001 Thanksgiving. I was planning on going away with him to meet his family who lived out of state. Tony received horrible news that his brother was very sick and needed and emergency operation. While Tony was gone to visit his brother he calls me a few days later to tell me that his brother died. Naturally he was terribly upset. The next time I saw him we went to a restaurant and he cried and poured his heart out to me……….Jump to Christmas. Tony has 2 kids and I was supposed to spend Christmas with him….I even bought his kids presents. Not only did I never meet the kids but Tony never even gave me any Christmas presents. My mom even bought him gifts. Tony and I even went to the company Christmas party together..
Jump to New Years Eve 2001 going into 2002. His daughter is deathly ill in the hospital. He is nice enough to drag himself away from her death bed to visit me and my family. Jump to March 2002. Tony told me he had been living in hotels for quite some time because he was having a house built in Frederick and already sold his old house. He told me he didn’t have a land line because he didn’t have a permanent address yet. And I believed him. Well as time passed I began to realize the holes in his stories. I was friends with someone at work who was one of the warehouse managers and she told me that Tony did have a land line. Tony was the night shift manager and all of the warehouse managers had each others phone numbers in case of emergency. Carol told me she couldn’t give me the number but she would leave it on her desk and if I happen to see it and copy it down it would be on me. I agreed and called. When I called I got an answering machine. There was a woman’s voice on it. It was Tony’s wife’s voice. Of course Tony explained that one day while she was picking up the kids she did it for him because he hated his voice. Fine whatever.
Jump to May. Tony and I had just spent an evening together talking walking around a park. He and I always talked on the phone while we drove. He told me to hold on he had call waiting. What he didn’t know was he accidentally put me on three way with the other caller…who happened to be his wife Christine. He lied the whole time on the phone saying he went to the Orioles game with some guys at work and went out afterwards. Then he told her he loved her. I hung up infuriated knowing that he was playing me for 7 months and it took something as obvious as this to wake me up. He finally was fired from my company in May because he ran up $800 worth of cell phone bills for 3 months. The only good thing about Tony was he introduced me to Scott. If I never met Tony I wouldn’t have met Scott. Scott had been working at our company for about a year, but since he is a driver I never saw nor met him.
Tony was a piece of shit. He hurt me like no one ever did. I actually felt physical pain from the emotional pain I felt. He used me for sex and all his little fantasies. He took me at my sweetest times and made me into a nasty bitter person. He lied all of the time. He made me cry all of the time. I mean really for example how on earth do you not give your girlfriend any Christmas presents??? Or Valentines presents? I bought him a fucking star. You know how you can dedicate a star to someone. Yeah I did that for him…. He is so ungrateful and unthoughtful. I always felt that I was the problem because he made me the problem. It took a long time, lots of medication, and a lot of therapy to see my life is just fine and he is the asshole.
Jump to January 2006… I get a mysterious call at work from Christine Shackelford…his wife. She calls me and asks if I ever had an affair with her husband. I told her yes and no and gave her the whole story that he was my boyfriend an putting on this facade that he was getting divorced, blah, blah. Mind you the bitch is like 4 years late. I haven’t seen Tony in 4 years or talked to him for that matter. I don’t care about him and I’ve dealt with his bullshit. She is calling because she needed to know what went on because they are having marriage problems now and she thinks he is running around again and wanted to confirm her suspicions. I told her everything. I left out no details. Tony told her that I seduced her and it was a one time thing. Then I began questioning lots of his things that he did to me. For example his brother, the one who died, yeah he is still alive. And he never lived in hotels. He lived in Pasadena with his wife then moved to Frederick with his wife. The Christmas presents I bought the kids..He passed them off as gifts he bought. He lied and said the gifts that me and my family gave him were from coworkers. He even lied to his wife about loosing his job. I made a comment to her that I hadn’t seen him since he was fired and she was just confused. She said I thought he was laid off because the break point never opened….please. And here is the kicker. The star I bought him. He gave it to his wife for valentines day. What a fucking slime ball.
Now I’ve had 4 years to get over this. I don’t need to rehash any of this shit. Christine sought me out herself. She looked up Corporate Express’s phone number and asked for me. It was funny because when she called she asked for me by my maiden name and the receptionist was like she’s married now, which I’m sure Christine was really pleased about. And I’m sure everything that I’ve told her is really just confirming things, but she is right now just dealing with a drama that ended 4 years ago. She has been calling me a lot. The first call was to make sure Tony hadn’t tried to contact me. I was a little worried about that too especially after she told him everything that I did. Now the bitch wants to meet me. I told her I had old photos and my journal about what Tony did to me and she wanted to see them. At first I was like what’s the harm. I’m over it. But after some speculation I was like she is going to be a crazy bitch. You never know how a woman who has been cheated on will react. She is just dealing with this news. I’m sorry now she has my contact info. Plus if Tony finds out he will try to fuck with me. I am screening all of my calls that I don’t recognize because I don’t want to talk to her anymore. I am going to try to ignore her. I am not getting myself wrapped up in this drama. And what’s worse is Tony knows my husbands name so all he has to do is look it up in the phone book. We have a listed number. Tony may pop up here at work or at my house one day. It’s a good thing Scott and I carpool…..I just want all of this to go away. I always do that. I speak when I shouldn’t. Now I regret telling her and I’m afraid of what might happen in the next few weeks.